自分の問題は自分自身で対処できるが、他人の問題を自分で直接変えることは不可能です。

問題を他人の問題にすれば、愚痴だけが出ます。
自分の問題と考えれば、解決可能な問題になります。

全ての悩み、不平不満は、問題の本質を相手の問題と考えるところから始まります。

これを全て、自分の問題と考えることによって、悩みは解決するのです。

久野康成

Do not see it as another's problem; make that problem your own.

You can deal with your own problem, but it is impossible to directly change others' problems yourself.

If you think the cause of the problem comes from others, only complaints will come out.

If you consider it as your problem, it becomes a problem that can be solved.

All troubles, complaints start with thinking the essence of the problem as the partner's problem.

Thinking of all this as your own problem solves your troubles.

Yasunari Kuno

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